Is this an abusive marriage? Sincere Christian lady.?

I am not going to bash you for not putting a stop to this a long time ago. What's important is the here and now. Divorce his a.s.s. and take him to the cleaners. Let him know you could care less what he has to say, thinks, or wants. If he brings up the Bible again, tell him your Bible says he's pure evil and you need to get away from him. Quote to him, "Get thee behind me, Satan."